Summer season Home Recap: Kyle Claims Amanda Drives Him ‘to the Drink’

Kyle Cooke put the blame on spouse Amanda Butter after she claimed on the newest episode of Summer season Home that his ingesting was the crux of their relationship points.

“I do know I attempted final night time. I do know it got here out as some sort of justification and excuse. However, I actually do assume we have to work on our communication,” Kyle, 43, instructed Amanda, 34, in the course of the Tuesday, February 17, episode of the Bravo collection, which was filmed in summer time 2025 previous to the couple saying their cut up in January.

Kyle stated he wished to “really feel like we’re on the identical web page,” and Amanda was in full settlement because the pair sat on the “apology dune” throughout a gaggle journey to the seashore.

Regardless of eager to make peace, Amanda confessed she was “not going to do issues” for Kyle when he wasn’t doing the identical for her.

Amanda pointed to Kyle’s alleged extreme ingesting as her largest difficulty amid their marriage woestelling him, “I want you to get your ingesting underneath management.”

Kyle argued that he “solely” drinks “once I’m social,” which didn’t sit properly together with his partner.

“However that’s an issue for me. I don’t need to babysit you. I don’t need folks to really feel like they should control you,” Amanda defined. “I must know that my husband is accountable sufficient to exit on his personal and are available again.”

Kyle alleged that he was “in a horrible place” the weekend prior, which is why he drank an excessive amount of and aired their soiled laundry to the group. (Kyle accused Amanda of smoking weed each night time and claimed they by no means had intercourse due to it.)

“I instructed you going into the summer time if we are able to’t actually, bodily get our s*** collectively I’m going to have a psychological breakdown. What did I do? Had a psychological breakdown,” he quipped.

Amanda referred to as that rationalization an “excuse,” claiming that Kyle “shut(s) down each time that I inform you my difficulty is with you ingesting and you place a wall up. That’s the place my anger stems from.”

Kyle alleged that “the second” they acquired engaged in 2018, she “began saying ‘no’ to every little thing,” implying her staying residence was a part of the issue.

“Me not going out with you shouldn’t change your faithfulness to me and the way intoxicated you get whenever you exit,” Amanda fired again.

Kyle then acquired visibly upset, telling Amanda that he thinks their actual points stem from not having “compatibility, chemistry, intimacy (and) widespread pursuits.”

“Oh, it’s about my ingesting? What in regards to the days, weeks, months you don’t ask me a single query?” Kyle requested. “I don’t know who I married anymore.”

He began to storm off earlier than including, “It’s about my ingesting? If that’s what you assume you’re coming right here to speak about, you’re driving me to the drink.”

Kyle walked away from Amanda earlier than getting in yet another jab, telling her to “possibly get some curiosity, drive, intention, persona.”

Amanda claimed “that is the way it at all times ends” between the pair as they’ve weathered many storms following their September 2021 nuptials.

A couple of minutes later, Kyle got here again to Amanda who was getting choked up speaking to producers about their newest combat.

“I’m sorry. We’ve gotten this far. I’m not attempting to throw it down the drain right here. I like you,” Kyle instructed his associate, confessing, “All of this makes me insanely unhappy and depressed.”

Amanda was equally upset. “I harm each f***ing day. I simply don’t get why in spite of everything of those years I hold asking the identical factor and you retain not doing what I’m asking you for after which being like, ‘I don’t know what you want from me, Amanda!’” she defined. “I really feel like I’m going loopy.”

After Kyle argued that Amanda knew he was a “social particular person” after they met, she confessed, “I didn’t assume ‘social particular person’ meant dishonest.”

“Each time you exit I get DMs telling me that you just have been as much as one thing suspicious,” Amanda stated. “I don’t even deliver them as much as you anymore. … It’s simply fixed.”

When a producer requested whether or not Amanda thinks Kyle has cheated on her since his 2018 infidelityshe was unclear.

“I don’t know. I’d wish to assume not. However he has prior to now. There have been loads of rumors about it. Who is aware of? Solely Kyle,” she confessed.

Kyle, in the meantime, apologized for his outburst on the seashore, saying, “I’m sorry I haven’t been capable of provide the belief you have to be current on this relationship. I’m attempting my greatest. I like you.”

Amanda replied, “I like you too. However, like, one thing’s gotta change, Kyle.”

After the cameras wrapped filming in summer time 2025, Amanda and Kyle sparked cut up hypothesis over the autumn months. It wasn’t till January that the pair confirmed they’d separated after 4 years of marriage.

Summer season Home airs on Bravo Tuesdays at 9 p.m. ET.